They tend to wear women's clothing to highlight the feminine side of their own nature, as well as to gain an erotic emotion and to modulate their anxiety. As you have no doubt noticed, cross-dressing can bring your husband extreme happiness and even euphoria, so it's no wonder you don't like to deny him this pleasure. This is a difficult issue, but I think it needs to be addressed. It has become evident that many men who wear women's clothing, both those who wear panties and those who take their women's fashion much further, have difficulty maintaining romantic relationships with women.
Some men even report losing several partners because of lingerie or because of skirts and high heels. In the bedroom, many people test other identities. This is a perfectly normal part of making love. Men may fantasize about pleasing their feminine side, while women fantasize about being the aggressor.
This may be accompanied by the use of costumes or some type of clothing that is generally associated with the opposite sex. It's all part of the fun and excitement. As with everything involving human beings, the topic is complicated, but I have several theories as to why men who wear women's clothing may find it difficult to maintain a relationship, and by discussing these theories I also hope to offer some possible solutions. Today, women can engage in all types of “masculine” behavior (including wearing clothing that is traditionally masculine) with far fewer consequences than a man who is feminine.
Yes, dominant women can be sexy, but unless you find one who likes to have her men wear lingerie (and there are serious supply and demand issues with that small scenario), you'll open yourself up to continuous heartbreak and guilt, as these women reject you and your desires out of the hands.